Before I describe a Boundaries Check-In, let’s first define what personal boundaries are.

Personal boundaries are guidelines, rules or limits that a person creates to identify reasonable, safe, and permissible ways for other people to behave towards them and how they will respond when someone passes those limits.

Ann C. James, Founder of Intimacy Coordinators of Color

A Boundaries Check-In is an opportunity for everyone to share their personal boundaries. This can take the form of identifying boundaries for different areas of the body (such as in the case of actors, dancers, or performers).

We can expand this to include how someone would like to be greeted (hugs, handshakes, or waves from six-feet away), requests for asking before you move any equipment, or reminders about needing to end rehearsal or filming at a specific time.

If there is an Intimacy Professional on set or in rehearsal, they will include a Boundaries Check-In as part of their work with the actors.

However, anyone can add a Boundaries Check-In to a meeting, rehearsal, or production to foster a Consent-Forward environment.

Written by Windy Borman

Windy Borman is a documentary filmmaker, Narrative Architect, and founder of WB Consulting LLC. After 25+ years on both sides of the camera and the stage — producing films that premiered at Sundance and HBO, interviewing Sir Richard Branson and Governor Gavin Newsom, and directing Ashley Judd's voiceover work — she created the B.R.A.V.E. Framework™: the narrative architecture system that gets the real version of female and non-binary executives from the Green Room to the mic. She works with executives and leaders who are done being the best-kept secret in their industry.

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